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Volunteer Spotlight: Sophie
 Posted: 2/1/18 by Michelle Fox (Administrative Director) 

Our mission could not thrive without our wonderful volunteers! They truly are unpaid staff members that help us to function effectively and successfully. Whether they are helping at our front desk, stuffing envelopes, gardening, cleaning, serving on a committee or Companioning in one of our programs, we are grateful for their commitment and the array of contributions they make to advance our mission.


A pivotal role that I have at Olivia's House is interviewing all of the potential volunteers who apply to work with us.  In these interviews, I always try to discern their interests and talents in order to match them with just the right volunteer position. 


I have been fortunate to meet many interesting and enthusiastic people who are eager to share their skills and talents with Olivia's House.  One special volunteer that I've gotten to know better over the past year is Sophie.  She showed up one day at Olivia's House without making an appointment.  We had a brief conversation, and then I didn't hear anything more from Sophie until weeks later, when I received a phone call from her expressing interest in volunteering with us.  I learned that Sophie is affiliated with an organization called Focus. She is on the autism spectrum and is learning to live outside of her comfort zone, pushing her limits. Every Friday morning you can find Sophie at Olivia’s House, helping to clean the grief center. Our staff wishes we had a volunteer like Sophie at our York center too.  She does a great job and we've grown to look forward to spending our Fridays with her. 

Sophie is an ideal volunteer:  she doesn't say no and is always willing to try to accomplish the task at hand, no matter what it is.  We thank you, Sophie, for your hard work that supports our staff and our mission! 
The Guardian Angels
Posted: 1/1/18 by Leslie Delp, MA (Founder and Bereavement Specialist)
What is a Guardian Angel?   In history, a guardian angel was an angel that was assigned to protect and guide a particular person, group, kingdom, or country. Everyone at Olivia’s House knows that our guardian angels serve to insure our future. This year Olivia’s House was blessed with an unexpected, sizable gift from a guardian angel.  Joyce Wilt planned to bless Olivia’s House in her estate. Unbeknownst to us, we were in her thoughts as she prepared to give her savings away at the end of her life.  Somehow our mission touched her heart.  Joyce made sure that we could take care of children for a long time.  She was a true guardian angel.
As the founder of Olivia’s House, I was touched by this selfless act.  To think that someone else held the grieving children of our community as near and dear to them as I did was amazing!  To know that she took legal steps to ensure their care was overwhelming.  With Joyce’s gift, our mission was able to renovate some worn out areas of our grief centers.  Using some of those funds to support our staff has translated into caring for the children and sustaining our programs.   Joyce's final act of generosity ensured that we could move forward with projects that had been on hold until we could raise the money to accomplish them.
When we first opened our York center in 2002, it was decided that anyone who pledged a gift to Olivia's House in their estate would be known as a Guardian Angel.  There was no requisite dollar amount, simply a promise of a gift to provide for the security of this beloved mission. The commitment could be verbal or written, with or without the assistance of legal counsel.  Olivia's House records the promise with a specially engraved brick in our garden that says, simply, "Guardian Angel," with the family name included.  When you visit our Healing Garden of Hope at the York center, you will see many of these engraved bricks lining the path.  Each one denotes the promise of a family in our community whose legacy ensures future support for grieving families.
Recently, my husband and I met with our attorney to plan our end of life care and estate.  When we put details in writing for our children, we planned a gift for Olivia’s House.  It was important for us as the founding family to leave a legacy to work to leave a legacy to sustain the future mission.  We are proud to be Guardian Angels and more proud to have a brick in the garden that underscores our commitment to this fund. 

Check out the Guardian Angel Legacy Fund on our website for more information on how to become a member.  Over the past decade, we have amassed many Guardian Angels, and we are grateful and overjoyed for the assurance of security that their promises bring for the future of Olivia's House!
Fear of Commitment
 Posted: 12/1/17 Julia Dunn, M.Ed. (Program Director)

Three times a year Olivia’s House hosts a group of bereaved families for our Hearts Can Heal program. Long before Olivia’s House was even a house, Leslie saw that the needs of grieving children were not being met – that is, until they came together once a week for eight weeks to learn, connect, and grow through their grief. Twenty years later, we continue to support the community in this way (among many other ways!), and while our quality of care has improved year by year, there is one prominent decline: the willingness of the families to commit to attending all eight weeks. If our study in psychology has taught us anything, it is that in order to get people to do something, they need a reason, or a “because.” What is our “because”? One of the reasons we ask families to attend all eight weeks of Hearts Can Heal concerns the cost. Although we don’t charge families for the services that are provided, it costs almost a thousand dollars of the community’s money to put one person through the program. Missing weeks is a poor use of that donation. Plus, the slot could have been filled by another family able to attend all sessions of Hearts Can Heal.

More importantly, we require our families to attend every week because it is a program that builds on itself. Missing a week of Hearts Can Heal is like missing an entire year of school for a child. You wouldn’t go right from third grade to fifth grade if you missed the education you needed in fourth grade! We want to create a safe environment for each and every person who walks through our door. When someone shares their story of loss, it is not conducive to healing to repeat it every week to accommodate the participants who missed it the week before. Instead of learning and healing, you are caught in the cycle of repetition. You may feel at the moment that your child’s parade or sporting event takes precedence over an evening at Olivia’s House. But our expertise over 20 years and the experience of thousands of participants have shown that full participation in the program is crucial to healing. We don’t want to give your family anything but the best . . . because you are worth it!

The Workshop
  Posted: 11/1/17 by K.C. Delp (Executive Director)
November 21 marks the fourth anniversary of the opening of Olivia’s House Hanover. I vividly remember the day we found our “Hanover home.”  I had closed the grief center for the night and was sitting in my car when the email listing came across my phone. After taking one glance at the description of the property, I turned the car off,  went back inside and made some calls.  I KNEW it was to be ours!


We took ownership of the building at 101 Baltimore Street, formerly the Bell Insurance building, in mid-June, and the first thing we did in our new Hanover home was hold a staff meeting.  As we gathered to strategize, our first activity was a photo scavenger hunt.  We compiled a list of questions, which each staff member would answer with a representative photo taken in or around the building.  My favorite question was "What is something the Hanover center offers that York doesn't?" The obvious response, for me, was a photo of the three-car garage.  I remember thinking, at the time, that it was a great space that we could ultimately develop in accordance with the needs of the grief center and the community.


I am delighted to finally announce that our plans to remodel the garage space are coming to fruition and that our Board of Directors has decided to move forward on this renovation in the coming months. We were thrilled to collaborate with CORE Design Group, Stewart & Tate, Bortner Bros., and Engles & Fahs to design “The Workshop.”


It was important to us to retain the garage-like industrial feel of this space, to signify the work that will happen there. The design calls for:

- a glass garage door opening into the Dane Stambaugh Serenity Garden, where our rock garden and candle lighting rituals will take place;

- a program space big enough for large in-service trainings; and

- the "pounding walls" for use during the coping skills sessions of the Hearts Can Heal program


We are already dreaming of many future possibilities for this space, including hosting a Holly Jolly Garden Party in Hanover. Stay tuned for more developments as we go forward to improve and advance our Hanover center!

The Bricks in our Path
 Posted: 10/1/17 by Michelle Fox (Administrative Director)
The Healing Garden of Hope at Olivia’s House is a peaceful space where our families may escape when they need a few moments of solitude. While visiting the garden, you will notice a brick pathway created with over 6,000 bricks. Many of the bricks are unique and special, because they are inscribed with messages to loved ones, both past and present. 

Every summer, Olivia’s House hosts a Commemorative Brick ceremony and invites everyone who has purchased a brick throughout the year.  Friends and families gather for the ritual where they will permanently place their brick in the Healing Garden of Hope. This ritual has been taking place since we opened our doors over fifteen years ago. This beloved ritual has taken place annually since 2002, the year Olivia's House opened its doors.

For fifteen years, we have been able to offer the commemorative bricks for $75.  However, the cost of inscribing the bricks has increased, so it has become necessary for us to charge more for them.  The minimum donation for a memorial brick will now be one hundred dollars.  This price increase not only will cover the additional costs of the bricks themselves, but also will help us continue to maintain the garden as a resplendent sanctuary for all of the families who will find comfort there.

If you are interested in purchasing a brick in honor or in memory of someone special to you, you can find the order form here, as well as a video showcasing the Commemorative Brick ceremony. We invite you to consider personalizing a brick for your family that can be enjoyed for many years to come!  Please feel free to contact Michelle at 717-699-1133 with any questions you many have.